The 8 orgasms every woman deserves to have!

The 8 orgasms every woman deserves to have!

The quest for the ultimate orgasm can be frantic, frustrating and, more often than not, downright fruitless. Until now. Thanks to Company, the search for the O-ly grail is over, once and for all.

An orgasm is pretty familiar territory. It feels great, it leaves you limp and breathless, and one\'s exactly like another. Except when it isn\'t - and instead of the usual minor pant-fireworks, you have an orgasm that createst the sort of body-and-mind-shaking pyrotechnics you\'d expect to witness at an Olympic opening ceremony, not in your own bed. This kind of orgasm is rare, but it is possible. And with our guide to the perfect orgasm, you can go for the big one in an incredible eight (count \'em!) different ways. If you find nine, we want your man\'s number!

Click through to the next frame to find out how to have orgasm numbe one, The Multiple Marvel!

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The Multiple Marvel

It\'s easy to dismiss the well-worn idea of the multiple orgasm as made-up nonsense peddled by porn directors. But believe us, it exists - you just have to know how to capture it.

The multiple is most likely to happen when he\'s using his hand, as it\'s more sensitive to your body than his penis or a vibrator. And while his tongue might ultimately triumph, it\'s harder for him to work out his exact map co-ordinates down there. He begins by rubbing small circles on your clitoris - it\'ll also help if he can manage to stimulate your nipples at the same time. When you begin to come, he moves his fingers so he\'s rubbing gently round your vagina instead - then, as your orgasm ebbs, he moves back to just above your clit, and continues making very gentle circles. This prolongs your orgasm, and if he keeps switching between clitoris and vagina, it can go on for up to two minutes. Just don\'t blame us when you\'re exhausted!

The Simultaneous Stunner

It always works in films - two beautiful people hump frantically for 30 seconds, then suddenly they\'re both shrieking with bliss. Clearly, this is not realistic. The simultaneous orgasm is possible, but it takes a little more effort than that. Alright, a lot more. It\'s most likely to happen if you\'re in control, which means you need to go on top. Begin with a rocking motion, so your clitoris is directly stimulated every time you move forwards. If his body language (wild thrusting, passionate groaning... you get the picture) suggests he\'s about to come, simply stop moving for a moment. The key is to get you both to roughly the same point of arousal, then tip yourselves over the edge by placing his hands on your breasts, rocking forward, and increasing your speed. It won\'t work every single time - but it almost certainly will sometimes, and surely that\'s a chance worth taking?

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The Full-Body Frenzy

The full-body orgasm is the one where you briefly forget who you are and even which planet you\'re from! (Or, if it\'s really good, a few days later you may be found wandering, half-dressed, in the road.) It happens because every nerve-ending has been intensely stimulated, so when you come, your system goes into complete meltdown. (Sounds good to us...)

It\'s true that not every woman can find her G spot - but research suggests that most of us are concealing a little bean-shaped spot just above the pelvic bone at the front of the vagina. If your partner can get the tip of his finger into a position to stroke it gently, whilst using his other hand on your clitoris, and his mouth on a nipple (yes, it helps if he\'s bendy), after 15 minutes you should be spiralling through the roof with arousal. Full-body orgasms are never guaranteed, and can take up to half an hour or more of continual arousal to launch - but if you do manage it; you\'ll know a-l-l-l-l about it!

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The Position of Passion

Naturally, men can have an orgasm in any position. But while he might be going wild for the Wheelbarrow, you may simply be left with a mild hamstring injury. Around 75% of women can\'t come through intercourse alone - they need clitoral stimulation too, so you\'re looking for a position that allows both. It also helps if you\'re free to fantasise, instead of directing operations and muttering, ‘Right hand there, no wait, you need to put your leg up higher...\', like a particularly frustrating game of Naturist Twister. So, basically, you need to do it doggy style. That way, he can reach round to your clitoris and boobs, and he\'s also got the perfect angle for thrusting into you at whatever speed you need. As long as your arms can take the pressure - and if not, lean onto a pillow with your bum in the air, he won\'t mind - you should be able to summon an intercourse-orgasm faster than you can say ‘I hope you\'re not filming this.\'

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The Oral Oh-My-God

The joy of oral sex is well-documented. But sometimes, his inept technique or simply your own nervousness about whether he\'s enjoying it can stop your oral orgasm in its tracks. The trick is to make sure you\'re properly turned on before he even gets near your clitoris, which means at least half an hour of foreplay, breast attention and kissing. Then he can make his way up your thighs to the main event. It helps if he can caress you while he licks, although both his hands on your boobs can make him look like a man hanging off a ledge, which is more humorous than arousing. The real skill is for him to lick around your clitoris and to go slowly (long, rhythmic licks will have a much better effect). Once he\'s set up a rhythm, he shouldn\'t change until you ask him to - if it\'s taking ages, you can always take a short break to kiss. If he can go on while your sensations build, though, you will almost certainly have the most staggering orgasm. Then he\'ll probably want you to return the favour...

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The Vibrator Va-va-voom

Finding the right vibrator can be tricky, but while some are good for a bit of a buzz, others will deliver an orgasm so spectacular, you\'ll forget why you ever thought men were necessary. Try the Layaspot - Perfect Vibration (£43) which, unlike many intimidating-looking dildos, is actually shaped to fit and can be directed at your personal hotspots. There\'s also the similarly-shaped Sasi (£94.99), which mimics the sensations of oral sex, and ‘remembers\' what you like. If, on the other hand, you prefer the old-school penis-shaped version of the vibrator, you can\'t beat the Rampant Rabbit (from £30) for its ability to do everything at once.

Getting the best orgasm out of your vibrator of choice takes practice. And it might help to read some erotic stories (try the Xcite books of short stories for women, xcitebooks.com) to get you in the mood.

Use lube, and give yourself plenty of time, just as you would for a good sex session. Your vibrator orgasm can be earth-shattering, but don\'t ditch your bloke altogether - it\'s still nice to cuddle afterwards.

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The Brilliant Build-up

The build-up is like any orgasm you\'ve really waited for. Whether it\'s the first with a new man, or you\'ve spent all day feeling thrills of anticipation about that evening\'s sex with your boyfriend, your gradually-growing excitement means that when you do finally come, it\'ll be a huge release. Start the day by masturbating almost to orgasm - then forcing yourself to stop. Send him a couple of texts outlining what you\'d like to happen later - if you\'re alone, you can send him a picture of your boobs (or more!). Go out with him with no knickers on and let him know about it. On the way home, let him slide his hand under your skirt - but stop him just before he gets where he wants to. By the time he actually touches you, your orgasm will have been hanging around all day waiting to explode - and, trust us, it will be worth it.

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The Quivery Quickie

Over time, you may have learnt not to expect an orgasm from a quickie. A speedy bunk-up in the kitchen, in the car or in the shower isn\'t necessarily conducive to explosive results - it\'s more about fun and naughtiness. But it\'s even more fun to enjoy both - and there is a way. Forget the long build-up - this is the down-and-dirty type of orgasm that comes from direct sexual contact. Once you\'re committed to your quickie, he should put his three middle fingers directly on your clitoris - or if that\'s too intense, right alongside it - and then he needs to rub in circles, as hard and fast as you can bear. You\'ll already be turned on, because of your sudden outbreak of passion, so your surprise orgasm should take just a couple of minutes to build. The trick is to give yourself over to it - you can\'t start thinking, ‘But what if my flatmate comes home?\' or ‘I\'ll miss the bus if this carries on\' - this kind of speed-orgasm needs focus from you, and determination from him. But if you can relax into it, it can offer the most fun you\'ve had all week, in just 60 seconds. Result!